The opera singer Sharleen Joynt—fellow Canuck, FLARE columnist and former Bachelor contestant—shares her take on last night’s episode

When Bachelor Juan Pablo had sex with Clare in the ocean, it caused barely a ripple on the internet. Yet, when Bachelorette Kaitlyn had sex with Nick it triggered a tsunami of slut-shaming. And so, as JoJo navigates the tricky sea that is being a female sexual being on The Bachelorette, we present this handy guide for her reference